How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 04:05

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Does not procrastinate.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Procrastinates a lot.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Ask yourself:

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What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.